I told her, “You are Beautiful”.

They say teenage girls are fickle and callow i.e they are cold, lack the experience one needs and are somewhat immature. I disagree. Women always have a soft side to them, they are delicate and impressible but they probably are the most reinforced of creations in the world. While you might call them abrupt, I’ll defend them.

Due to her characteristics, a girl can understand you better then anyone else. We are forever in our mother’s shadow and she had the strength to bring us up, Make us who we are today and never got put off by what the world said. She loved us while we abode inside her and will always love us till the end of time and for me, even after that. In the modern world, We’ve captured ourselves in a black hole where we consider women and specially the younger women as being a child’s toy just because she has the complete package but what is the complete package? Hardly anyone of us looks at the broader picture, We just see what’s on the outside and go for the kill, If we’re lucky we get the deal and If we’re not, We curse her. Why do we tamper with her feelings? Do we not really care? Is it all about the physicality? or are we just blind enough to not see her pain?

Every single day, I see two people get together. They tell each other “I love you”. The man is usually the first one and the girl, flattered by the interest loses her control and falls into the trap, She is sensitive but she can’t help herself, She needs someone to be at her side and just when she gets her expectations up high, It all falls apart. The boy just got sick and tired, The girl became spiritless and all the cheesy love stories come to an end just after a matter of weeks. As the sun rises once more, The boy goes onto meet someone else and repeat the whole process while the helpless girl cuts herself, sheds tears of agony, prays to die, even tries to die. PLEASE NEVER MAKE THE MISTAKE OF EVEN THINKING ABOUT KILLING YOURSELF! Yes, The world is cruel but ending your time here won’t make things any better, It is a sign of weakness and YOU ARE NOT WEAK! YOU WILL NEVER BE WEAK! YOU CAN CARRY ON AND ON AND ON.

There is always hope as long as you live, You can make things right and there is so much more to life then losing yourself over another person’s bestiality. They may push you aside to rot, They probably will always make fun of your make up, They’ll be crude and they would not care what you feel like till they see their own gain in you. Don’t be feeble, Tell yourself that you are here for a reason. People evolve as they grow up, So what if you can’t be in a decent relationship? So what if you feel unloved? So what if you feel empty? There is always a time, place and setting for something. Everything will fall into place, All you have to do is have a little faith, keep your head up high and remind yourself how important you are to yourself. Be the superior force, Don’t tumble because of your feelings. We have the right to be loved and by God you will be loved! It is inevitable.

The heart is a comical, It’ll make you cry, It’ll make you laugh, It’ll keep you alive and It would never die so don’t let it break specially at such a tender age. We’ve got a long way to go and on this journey, we’ll meet all kinds of people but somewhere in that crowd, You’ll find the person of your dreams. Give yourself time, think over it and let destiny do it’s bit. What is meant to be will happen. There is no law in the world that would tell you to back off, no force that would push you over and no one to stop you from getting what you want. Follow your dreams but most essentially follow your heart. Here I am, Writing about women when I’m just a boy myself. I’m different though, I respect girls. I don’t look at their bodies and think to myself “She’s the one that I want”. I listen to them, I talk to them, I’m all ears and I’m all support. That’s the best you can do rather then take them back to your bed.

From adhering to some practicality, I’ve learnt that all that a girl wants is someone to trust, someone to make her feel special and someone she can count on. Like I said at the beginning, This is where the sensitive nature comes into place. You can not expect to be loved till you do the right thing. We try to consolidate our words to try and console our birds (Seriously? Birds? Is that the best slang you can use for your girl?) A girl is not your “BIRD”, She is human and has feelings just like everyone else, Hell she has the strongest feelings out of us all and you compare that to a Bird? How jocular yet bitter. Get some sense into your heads and just try to appreciate what she goes through and as for you girls, You deserve the best so never put yourself down. I’m telling you now and I’ll tell it to you again, I don’t know who you are and why you just read this but You are Beautiful. Nothing will change the fact so go out there with a smile on your face, The biggest smile you could possibly give. The angels will look down upon you, They will walk beside you. Nothing can manipulate your purity. Be proud, Be foolish but don’t be careless. Little things can make magic, You are definitely one of those vital little things. Smile for the world just so they can envy your pretty teeth.